You Do Not Need to Know It All to Begin

Unless you believe you need to know it all, you will never begin! Many great people who achieved their dreams did not know how to get there. But they all had something in common – let’s call it the fire within.

FIND YOUR FIRE

With this in your mind, think of your dream for a minute. Something soooo big that you can’t see (yet) how you make it real. Let your imagination run wild for a minute or two. How would it feel if it was real?

Got it? Great!

Now, honestly, ask yourself: “Am I spending too much time trying to answer all the questions of HOW am I going to make my dream work?“

This is a very overwhelming question that might be holding you back for way too long.

Unstuck yourself. Stop wasting your time trying to figure out all the answers. It’s time to focus your energy on defining WHY YOU MUST do it.

Many successful people had a strong reason WHY they had to do it. That’s what got them so far.

So what lights your FIRE within?

Maybe you saw so much suffering around you that you want to help others not go through the same things you did. Perhaps you want to help out your family. As a choice, you want to give back to those who helped you along your way.

Undeniably, one of the WHYs that got me started is my love for my grandmother, who gave me so much. After all, I wanted to take care of her and give her what she needed and couldn’t effort herself.

WHAT/WHO DO YOU CARE ABOUT THE MOST?

What’s more, I saw what not loving ourselves does to people and how it affects relationships with others. How do people seek escape through smoking, drinking, watching tv, and eating junk… I’ve been there myself.

When I was young, I believed I was not good enough. I craved the love of my mother and didn’t know my father. I was bullied in primary school and my first year of high school. Sometimes we didn’t even have money to buy food. I couldn’t fit in.

Seeing that, I didn’t want to accept this life for myself. I had to find a way out. I definitely didn’t know how I could create something out of nothing. But determination is an incredible thing!

*The distance between your dreams and reality is called ACTION!*

And especially powerful can be when we say ENOUGH is ENOUGH and draw a massive line between what we are willing to accept and what we no longer tolerate!

Q: Write down at least 3-5 reasons WHY you need to go after your DREAMS.

WHY: At the end of my life, when I look back, I want to say I truly lived. I lived life true to myself and used it to contribute to other people. I will leave fulfilled and with no regrets.

WHY: I want to honour my grandmother.

WHY: I want to guide other people on their journeys. My way of paying back what others did for me when I was in need.

ALL YOU NEED

Keep it visible so that whenever you have doubts, remind yourself WHY and do it anyway!

I was worried as I didn’t know how to make it work. But I didn’t let it stop me. The desire was more significant, and yours needs to be too.

ENOUGH is ENOUGH!

If I look back to when I was 18 and who I am, I don’t recognise myself anymore.

My life turned unexpectedly around, and here I’m now. I am relaxing by the beach, listening to the ocean’s sound and thinking how grateful I’m for what I have conquered until now.

The hunt for a better life got me on this beautiful journey of getting to know myself, accepting who I am, and forgiving myself and those who hurt me.

I was too long stuck thinking about HOW I would make this blog work. Thinking about how I’m going to become a life coach. What I have reminded myself just now…

… My desire to contribute to people who might be in a similar situation as I used to be, the desire to break people’s limitations and help them on their path to finding themselves is way bigger.